Frustration

Hello everyone!
It's so nice to go to your blog and see that people have commented. Some body loves us! I wondered if people even read it... now that I know, I shall work to update it.
Anyone who reads this... I want you to know that i'm going to be honest from now on. I want to share my frustrations, my joys, etc. and would love feedback. So go nuts!
Here's my thing today. I get so frustrated with THE CHURCH (ie) all believers. We say we want God. And we say we want to see people saved. But how many have acutally brought someone to Jesus lately? I'm not trying to lay a guilt trip. But if Jesus is really making a difference in our lives, then why is it so hard to share Him? I don't think it has to be! Yeah, our lives need to be living examples. There's a saying that goes something like... "Share Jesus with others and if you need to, use words." But where's the part where we go beyond words to explain why our lives are different? Is the whole concept of "actions speak louder than words" a coppout in some ways because we're scared to talk to our friends about Jesus?
Thoughts?